relationship problems?

a fren has been talking to me abt relationships.
abt the background, income, education level and age differences.
my take was; true. these factors do play an important part.
the difference is how u weigh them towards your feelings for the other party and whether the other party feels the same way too.
if feelings for each other is affirmative, to me, these factors doesnt matter at all.
and so what if u do find one who match all ur requirements?
i still tink the chemistry plays a BIG part.
I'm a more feeling person. if theres no chemistry i heck care if u r the most beautiful person in the world. (haha)

So what if one party is unsure of his/her feelings? or is afraid to commit?
this will be tougher as one has to give assurance to the other.
nobody likes a brokenheart. so those who had been hurt badly are naturally more defensive.
Its very difficult to make another step out into the unknown (will I be hurt again? Is this person true to me?)
One has to do a lot to regain confidence in them. But I believe slowly and surely it can be done.
Also the hurt one must help themselves to 'stand up' again though its not easy.
Do not be afraid. reach out to the hand tats there to pull u.
even if the two are not meant to be together, so? still can be good frens.
feelings may get diluted over time. but if both stays committed to each other it will work. yes, committment plays an important role. there are many ways to rekindle love lost but it takes 2 hands to clap. If u really find someone worth staying with the rest of ur life with, stay committed.

there. theres my 2 cents worth. :)
something taken from the late Bruce Lee. its meaningful:
-Be like water.-
when u put water in a cup, it becomes the cup.
when u put water in the bottle, it becomes the bottle.
be like water my fren.